Date: January 24th, 2009

 Dirt & Dreams Winter 2009 Edition The Federation of Egalitarian Communities
 
  Table of Contents
1. Welcome & Introduction

2. 2008 and the FEC

3. Update from Emma Goldman Finishing School in Seattle, WA

4. A Human Sized Answer to a Global Problem: Sharing & Climate Change

5. Skyhouse Update

6. How we make Maple Syrup at Sandhill Farm

7. Sandhill Update

8. Willow Catches a Fish

9. Acorn Update

10. How to Visit an Intentional Community

11. East Wind Community Update

12. Twin Oaks Community Update
Welcome to the Winter 2009 Issue of Dirt & Dreams
The E-Newsletter of the Federation of Egalitarian Communities

In this issue we bring you updates from our member communities, a review of our accomplishments in 2008, stories from our communities, and more!

The Federation of Egalitarian Communities is a network of communal groups spread across North America. We range in size and emphasis from small agricultural homesteads to village-like communities to urban group houses. We share a set of core principles including nonviolence, egalitarianism, and participatory decision-making.

Dirt and Dreams is our E-mail newsletter where we bring you news about our communities, articles about our values, and clips of our art and culture.


2008 and the FEC

2008 was a great year for the FEC! We have had a rise in participation and interest from our member communities and we have made significant progress as an organization.

In February we held the winter assembly at East Wind Community in Missouri. East Wind was gracious and welcoming and our meetings were productive. We also threw a "pirate party" at East Wind on our last night there, where 6 communities danced the night away in pirate garb!

We have active delegates from all our member communities, and our last two assemblies were fully attended. We have facilitated a lot of traffic between our communities, including the Sorghum Harvest Festival at Sandhill and the Communities Conference at Twin Oaks. We sent representatives to NASCO Institute in Ann Arbor and the Mother Earth Harvest Fair in Maryland.

Our website was updated, and now allows folks to blog about their own personal experiences with community. Log on and join our online community! Tell your stories and share your dreams and community experiences with us!

This upcoming year we plan to produce video programs to publish on youtube.com and to host a natural building workshop in Virginia.

These are exciting times to be a part of the FEC, as interest and participation in our organization is at an all-time high. Join us, and help us create a new way of living!


Update from Emma Goldman Finishing School in Seattle, WA

This past year has been full of changes. The biggest, being the birth of our first baby, Ruby, who is the daughter of Johanna and Sheldon. As a community, we've been learning how to support new parents, how to do baby sign language, and how to relate with this little one. It has been a challenging and rewarding learning opportunity for us. Now, Ruby is walking/tottering, which brings a whole new set of fun and challenging things.

Also, we have seen some dramatic membership flux. After taking on two new adult members and two children in the fall of 2007, in the summer of 2008 one of our adult couples, our new member, and her two children moved on. So there was that. But we also had the blessing of bringing on our newest member Wilson. That brings us to our current membership of seven adults (Sheldon, Johanna, Addy, Monica, Marc, Patience, Wilson) and one child (Ruby), which means we have 5 rooms available.

We decided to open up two of the rooms for non-membership-seeking subletters, and have Marc's partner Tamara live in one room, and host our past member Thea (also of Sandhill) in the other for the winter months. We're excited to have their upbeat energy and great skills around Emma's.

Each year, we are expanding our own food production, and this year we joined a collective farm on Vashon Island, which is just a ferry ride away. We have one out of eight shares, where we put in $400 upfront, do six hours of a labor a week, and get our share of the harvest. That in addition to what we grow in our own garden has enabled us to have a pretty decent produce supply in the summer months. We're planning on continuing this next year.

On the project front this past year, we've taken care of a few small-medium projects, including refinishing our dining room and main hallway floor by sanding it down and varnishing it. We took the opportunity to also put a fresh coat of paint on our dining room walls, which makes our main common space more inviting and easier on bare hands, knees, and feet. We've also been working on preparations for redoing our front deck, fixing old fans, and reorganizing our pantry space.

Overall, we are doing well. We've been enjoying the long, dry, beautiful Northwest fall, and are now settling in for a winter of hanging out, socializing, and building our community from the strong core we have.


A Human Sized Answer to a Global Problem: Sharing & Climate Change

The global community is facing a serious ecological problem. Unless we change our way of living, we may be passing on to our children a world with rising sea levels, extreme weather conditions and disrupted ecosystems. According to governmental studies done in the UK and the European Union, a global average temperature increase of over three degrees Celsius would cause irreversible changes to our environment, the effects of which may include a potential rise of the sea level of up to seven meters and widespread water and food shortages.

Nathan Rive of the Center for International Climate and Environmental Research in Oslo says that if we are to have any chance of preventing the average temperature from increasing over two degrees "we would have to cut global emissions by 80 percent by 2050."

How can we stop consuming resources and producing carbon at such high levels? Is it possible to do so and still maintain the level of comfort that we have in modern life? Are we willing to make the changes necessary, when the ultimate effects of our actions (or inaction) will not manifest until decades from now? We have the technology that can help, but investment in these technologies on a massive scale is needed now if we hope to put the changes we need in place in time to make a difference. Government programs like carbon taxes might help motivate our industries to pollute less. However, in places like the European Union and the UK where such laws have been enacted, carbon reduction is still falling short of their goals. In addition, the USA is the largest producer of carbon emissions per capita and there are currently no comprehensive carbon emission regulations in America.

Don't give up hope yet! There exists today a solution that could drastically reduce the energy consumption and carbon emissions of the modern citizen that does not require new technology or a drastic reduction in quality of life. It is not anything new or complex; in fact, it is something we all learned in kindergarten. It is called sharing.

Case in point: Twin Oaks Community

The bylaws of my home, Twin Oaks Community in Virginia, list ecological sustainability as just one of the many purposes of our community's existence. The primary intention of our community at its founding was to create a culture of cooperation, sharing, and equality. We certainly do care about ecological sustainability and hold many discussions on how we could improve in this area. However, we have put most of our energy into finding ways to live cooperatively, communally and comfortably.

We have only 10% of our residents living off the electrical grid, we have no buildings built with cob or straw-bale, and we live with most of the comforts of modern life. Despite our lack of green technologies and our lifestyle of modern conveniences, members of our community consume far less resources than those in our neighborhood, in some cases by over 80% less!

Below is a breakdown of our resource consumption and how it compares to other people in our climate.

Gasoline: The average Virginia resident uses about 530 gallons per year.
Twin Oaks consumed about 15,267 gallons of gas in 2007.
With an adult & child population on average of 96, that would put our consumption at 159 gallons per person.
That is 70% less gas consumed!

Electricity: The average Virginia resident uses 13,860 kWh of electricity per year.
Twin Oaks consumed 268,065 kWh in 2007.
With an adult & child population on average of 96, that would put our consumption at 2,792 kWh per person.
That is 80% less electricity consumed!

Natural Gas: The average household in Virginia uses 767 therms of natural gas.
Twin Oaks consumed 16,221 therms of natural gas in 2007.
With an adult population on average of 87 adults, that would put our consumption at 186 therms per person.
That is 76% less natural gas consumed!

Solid Waste: The average American produces 1460 pounds of trash a year.
Twin Oaks produced 18,780.00 pounds of solid waste in 2007.
With an adult & child population on average of 96, that would put our production at 196 pounds per person.
That is 87% less solid waste produced!

Twin Oaks Community has a fleet of 12 vehicles that we share between all our members. Each day one person runs into town to gather the day-to-day needs for us all. They also ferry people to their various destinations like doctor's appointments or the library. By sharing our vehicles and carpooling, we are able to drastically reduce the amount of gasoline we use.

We all live in nine communal houses, each with different norms and culture. We use carbon-neutral wood to heat our houses. By sharing common space and having dormitory style housing, we consume much less energy to light and heat our homes than we would if we were to live in individual houses.

We serve lunch and dinner each day in a single building for our whole community. We are able to use much less energy to cook our food when we are using one kitchen to feed 90 people than we would if we each cooked our own meals.

What food and general necessities we do not produce ourselves, we buy in bulk. Because of this we greatly reduce the amount of packaging that comes onto our property. We send much less solid waste to the local landfill then we would if we were to each purchase our goods in individually wrapped packages.

By sharing so much we are able to live comfortably, but also greatly reduce our resource consumption and carbon output. Government programs and new technologies will be important in reducing our culture's output of carbon into the atmosphere, but there are things that we as individuals can do today to significantly reduce our contribution to global climate change.

Here are a few examples:

1. Join a food co-op! Use your collective buying power to save money, while also reducing the packaging and energy used to deliver your food to your table. If there is not one in your area, start one! http://www.coopdirectory.org

2. Carpool & ride-share when traveling! http://www.craigslist.org or http://www.rideshare-directory.com

3. Join a housing coop! Share a house with other like minded souls, and share food costs and cook communal dinners together. You will save much more money and resources over living alone! http://directory.ic.org/records/coops.php

4. Join an intentional community! There are thousands of communities out there with varying degrees of resource sharing and cooperation. http://ic.org

5. Join an egalitarian community! Pool your income together with other folks to live a more sustainable and equitable life with your neighbors. Share resources to reduce your carbon footprint! http://theFEC.org

As times get harder, people look for more alternatives to our unsustainable economic model. We do need to look towards technology to help us and we do need our governments to regulate industry and lower emissions. These are issues of national and international politics and are beyond the reach of the average person.

However, by sharing more with members of our communities, we really can make significant and meaningful difference in our personal impact on the environment. We have the power to turn this crisis into an opportunity. By being examples for others to follow, perhaps we can make the necessary changes our world needs, one community at a time.

Do you already live communally? Do an energy audit and see how your community is doing compared to others that live in your climate. Publish this information and let people know how effective cooperation and sharing is as a tool to battle climate change. A lot of good information can be found at this link: http://apps1.eere.energy.gov/consumer/ Please send copies of your energy audits to bucket@twinoaks.org


Skyhouse Update

Juan here, reporting on Skyhouse's comings and goings and doings since the last FEC assembly in February at East Wind.

The biggest news in Skyhouse is that Skyhouse will be welcoming a new member in March, as Amy and I are pregnant. Preparations and modifications are being made to room layouts to accomodate the new one, and we had a significant amount of fun calling my family in Argentina to let them know the news.

Skyhouse has been having some practice with children, however, as Ma'ikwe Ludwig and her son Jibran are renting a room in Skyhouse; I, for one, am happy that we have ten years before our child is his age. Dan Steinicke, a former member of Dancing Rabbit, returned and is also renting a room for the winter.

We had our first strong contenders for Skyhouse adult membership since Cecil left when Lauren and Shannon, a couple from Philadelphia, expressed an interest in us. After Amy and I met them briefly in Philly, Skyhouse decided to forego our usual method of encouraging interested folks to visit Dancing Rabbit, and instead hosted them directly. Their visit was pleasant, and it seemed like they might be a good fit for Skyhouse. Unfortunately, they decided to take a different path, and have not returned.

We've done a lot of traveling, as well. Tony went to the Art of Community and the FIC conference in May. Much family-related traveling ensued, with visiting of parents and friends all over the country.

On the business side of things, Tony has continued his hard work on the FIC's website, and Amy and I built the online store for the Milkweed Mercantile (http://www.milkweedmercantile.com). A dream of Alline Anderson and Kurt Kessner of Dancing Rabbit, the Mercantile's physical building isn't finished yet. But when it is, it will be host to a bed and breakfast, a cafe, and a general store. Skyhouse is now extremely close to seeing the last of the debt it incurred building our house go away, and I for one, can't wait.

Another exciting change is that as the Mercantile gets closer to opening, Amy is transitioning into her new career as Innkeeper. She is choosing reservation software, writing up guest policies, and setting room rates in preparation for the big opening in the spring. Alline is sending her to an Aspiring Innkeeper training in Colorado this January so she can get some hands-on skills as well.

Speaking of hosting, Puck from Twin Oaks also paid us a visit in October and helped us out for a while. He helped us with firewood and sorting our canned goods for the winter along with a few other Rabbit's projects as well. Thanks, Puck, it was great to have you around and we hope to see you again soon.

This month, Skyhouse co-hosted the most recent FEC assembly, and we tried to make Paul and Ethan as welcome as we could. Unfortunately, it was a cloudy week, so we were in conservation mode. Still, we learned a fun new game called Fluxx and hosted a big "End of Bush" party in our home. We hope everyone had a great time!

Finally, Skyhouse is looking for a garden work exchanger for 2009. We need someone with gardening experience who is interested and able to manage the whole garden. This person would have help from folks in our co-op, but would need to be able to work fairly independently. In exchange, we would cover all the basic expenses while they are here. This would include a room in Skyhouse, food from our co-op, co-op fees, reasonable vehicle use and more. However, we wouldn't be able to offer LEX for the duration since it's many months of living with us. Ideally it would be someone who is considering moving to our community. Know someone? Drop us a line at skyhouse@ic.org.


How we make Maple Syrup at Sandhill Farm

Tapping. Note: we tap soft (silver) maple trees, since that is what we have on our land; most of the commercial maple syrup on the market comes from hard maple trees in Canada and northern US. We have planted hard maple trees, but they are very slow growing: our 20-year-old trees will probably take another 10 years before we can tap them.

How do you find maple trees? One way is to look up at the canopy--the maple trees have swollen reddish buds. After awhile, the eye picks them out readily (by now, I know where all the trees on our land are). Then you inspect the trunk of the tree to find the scars from previous years' tapping. New taps should be about 4" away from old ones. Also, we prefer to tap the south sides of trees because when the sun shines, it warms that side of the tree and makes the sap flow more. We have been tapping some of our trees for 20 years, so they are pockmarked by grown-over old holes and it is a challenge to find the right spot. When we do, we drill a 5/16" hole 2-3" deep with an electric cordless drill (we used to use a brace & bit, but the cordless is faster and easier). Another person hammers in a plastic tap (we buy them from maple sugaring supply places). Then we attach a plastic tube to the tap and the other end into a bucket on the ground.

How many taps? The rule of thumb is that a tree needs to be at least 12" in diameter at chest height to be tapped. A tree that is more than 20" can have two taps and over 28", three taps. We run the tubes from one tree into the same bucket, usually a 5-gallon bucket. We do not put more than three taps in a tree.



Renay sucking maple sap from a tree

What makes the sap flow? As with many life processes, it is still somewhat mysterious and magical to me. The sap flows when the daytime temperature is above freezing and nights are below freezing. Why? It is kind of like a pump: the sap in the sapwood of the tree (not the cambium) expands with higher temperatures, thus creating pressure, which causes the sap to flow into our buckets to relieve the pressure (if there are any wounds in the tree, it flows from there too). Low temperatures at night make the sap contract thereby creating a vacuum, causing the sap to be sucked up into the sapwood from the roots, where it was stored in the winter. Then the rising temperatures make the sap expand again, etc. But wait! We have freezing/thawing temperatures in December and January as well. Does the sap flow then too? No. The sap rises in the spring (though I've been told that you can also collect sap in the fall; we have never tried it). Apparently, the inner energy in the trees begins to stir according to some inner clock (when the geese start flying north?). When it's spring, the sap rises.

How fast does it flow? It depends on the weather/temperatures. Occasionally, a tree will fill a 5-gallon bucket in a day, but it more often takes a week or more. In the same time, one tree may yield five gallons of sap while a neighboring tree will give only one. Why? I have no idea! We generally put out about 100 taps in about 50 trees every year these days. Our total annual yield has been between 16 and 76 quarts of syrup in the last decade, which translates to between 10 and 60 gallons of sap per tree. In our operation, it takes about two hours of work for every quart of maple syrup.

How do we cook? History: we first cooked maple in 1988: Ann & Ceilee decided to tap a big old maple near our pond as a home schooling project. They cooked it down on our kitchen stove. It took forever, but it worked! We had just purchased another property, which had a grove of large maple trees, and we realized we could use our sorghum cooking pan to increase the speed and efficiency of cooking. The next year we tapped approximately 20 trees and cooked it in the sorghum pan (a stainless steel pan 3'x16' over an open wood fire)--it was so much faster! We had been cooking it there until two years ago when we converted our sorghum cooking operation to a wood-fired steam boiler system. The boiler uses water to make steam which passes through copper tubes inside the juice to boil it. However, we can't use this process because during the time we process maple, we have freezing temperatures and so we would have to drain the boiler and all the tubes every time it was going to freeze- -way too much work! Solution? We took the old sorghum pan and cut it down to 3'x9' and moved it to a separate space in the same building (not quite that simple since we had to build a firebox with firebrick in a new location for the pan). Maple was the one to be moved since it is a small part of what we process in Sugar Shack. Sorghum is our main income producing business: we make about 700-800 gallons, and 100-200 gallons of honey compared to 5-20 gallons of maple.

Back to how we cook. With sorghum, we cook the raw juice into the finished syrup in a continuous process--all in the same day (or even hours). I assume some do the same with maple, but we don't (I have never watched anyone else cook maple). We do not sell any of our maple--it is only for our own use--and our pan is not designed to finish cooking small batches. When we have enough sap, we cook it down and then leave some in the bottom of the pan so it will not burn. When we have more sap we add it to the pan and cook it again - so the same sap can get boiled 4 or more times before we have enough that we can take it off and finish it in pots on our wood stove in the kitchen, where we can control the heat and concentrate the syrup w/o burning it. The last step is to ladle it into quart jars for storage for the rest of the year. We do not filter it and so we have “sediment/maple sand" in the bottom of our jars--it tastes the same as the rest of the syrup, but if we were to sell i t, we would probably have to filter it.

We cook together, too. When Dancing Rabbit Ecovillage became our neighbors 10 years ago, some folks there were interested in making maple syrup. They tapped some trees on their land as well as on neighbors' land. They bring the sap to our place since we have the facility to cook it efficiently. We divide the syrup by the number of hours we contribute and/or the sap we bring in. When Alyson moved to DR, she became the point person for the maple energy since she had family experience making it in New England. Now she lives at Red Earth Farms and coordinates the maple energy at Red Earth and Dancing Rabbit.


Sandhill Update

Stan's SEASON'S GREETINGS AND BEST WISHES FOR A GREAT 2009!

SANDHILL NEWS - 2008

Stan's version. 12/27/08

For more info, see our website: www.sandhillfarm.org
Current members: Renay, Apple, Gigi, Michael, Laird, Kathe, Stan
Community abbreviations: dr - dancing rabbit; ref - red earth farms; to - twin oaks; ew - east wind

January

  • our senior cat, Dragon, dies - at about 20 years old??
  • Otto (from ew) & Oliver cut lots of firewood (and in Feb as well)
  • Jen from dr visits for a week & redoes the Sandhill time line project; Gigi & Jen paint karma living room
  • Renay is part of the Quiz Bowl team at school (she's a great Sandhill ambassador at school
  • We have a large skating party on our pond before potluck dinner

    February

  • maple syrup season begins (we have another great year)
  • Toby, Michelle, and baby Adam from dr spend the month with us - we all get to coo at and play with Adam
  • Stan goes to ew for the FEC assembly meetings
  • Gigi & Kathe do phone interviews with internship applicants

    March
  • spring flowers & spring peepers
  • Apple returns for the season
  • Annual retreat - year end review and plans for the next one
  • This is the time of year when all our big windows in karma are filled with garden flats to start garden plants; the seedlings are moved to our new green house
  • Prune fruit trees

    April

  • Kevin, Ann, Thea & Jacob return
  • Ceilee & Tosca have a baby girl - Taivyn Mae (the first second generation Sandhillian)
  • Innoculate more shitake logs
  • We turn the south garden into raised beds
  • Garden crew meetings start: the garden crew meets once a week to review current priorities and who will do what
  • Highway cleanup: it feels good to help beautify a small part of the planet
    May
  • We celebrate Sandhill's 34th birthday - including a maypole, music, and a barn dance; the night before we have a memorial service for Geoph Kozeny
  • rain, rain, rain, rain - what a great time for raised beds!
  • We transplant the first round of the sorghum starts
  • Planting & transplanting in the garden - does it ever end?

    June

  • Renay goes to girl scout camp
  • lots of strawberries & cherries
  • visitors: Lindsey, Arielle, Doug, & Emily - who stays
  • Kathe and Michael are grandparents again

    July

  • Mark from Holland interns for the month
  • Laird & Kathe go to ew for Peach discussions
  • Jo throws her 21st birthday here and makes 720 sushi
  • Wheat harvest
  • Stan does lots of organic inspections

    August
  • Bud graft fruit trees
  • Amazingly cool weather

    September

  • 6" of rain in 36 hours
  • pick apples at Dan Kelly's
  • super heroes help us kick off sorghum harvest
  • Lots of visitors: ex-members, Chris, Bekka; also Arjen & Twin Oaks labor exchangers
  • Sorghum festival/open house including demonstrating squeezing apple cider & sorghum, sorghum cooking & sampling, hay ride to the fields & contra dance

    October

  • East Wind labor exchangers
  • Pullets begin laying eggs
  • Scotland County Concerned Citizens established - to slow down the number of CAFOs coming here (mostly hog operations). Gigi becomes a key person in the group - trying to keep the leaderless group together)

    November

  • we host FEC assembly and New Roots retreat
  • Jacob & Stan hunt deer; Jacob gets one and we butcher it
  • Kathe & Michael go for an extended retreat to their homestead in southwest MO.
  • Stan makes his annual pilgramage to visit family in Canada; this time i take some honey bees with me - the arthritis in my mother's knees got so bad she agreed to the apitherapy - i get the bees to sting her knees: it helps, but no miracle - shucks!

    December

  • Tosca & baby Taivyn visit (it's the first time i see taivyn). We all have a great time with both of them
  • Cross country skiing and skating
  • Jacob says goodbye: he will be traveling for several months and then moving back to ref
  • Laird & Ma'ikwe head off for a 10 day Vipassana retreat

    General

  • We continue to have weekly potluck dinners with folx from dancing rabbit and red earth farms - amazing to have 3 communities in our immediate area; now there is another community - the Sanctuary (also called the Possibility Alliance) about 45 miles away.
  • Gigi updated our website: sandhillfarm.org
  • Laird and Stan are blogging - they can be accessed on our website.

  • Tempeh: bad news. We have production problems all year (actually began in '07) - the tempeh does not develop evenly - there are spots where the innoculant does not grow. We try various measures: clean the processing kitchen & incubator, try different soybeans & innoculant, varying temperatures, etc. Occasionally, we have better batches (maybe 60% salable vs 10%). We get a tip - test the soybeans for bacillus subtillus; we do and sure enough, they test positive. Awright! We're hopeful of a quick fix. We find some local soybeans that test negative - but the tempeh patterns are the same! What? Bummer. At this point, i don't know if we still have a tempeh "business". Our regular customers continue to wait for our product - but for how long? We've sold virtually none in 10 months.... (except what we call “house" tempeh - which is intended for our own consumption - and we sell it at a discount to dr & ref folks).

    Membership. For most of our history, we've wanted more members, and we are in that place now. In the last few years, we've been actively recruiting younger folks. Ann & Kevin were here the entire growing season this year and we hoped(& still do!) that they would become members. Their dream was to buy their own land and homestead. They looked for the perfect spot in this area for some time - no luck. We then offered to sell them a chunk of our land - they liked it better than any they'd seen but they are still undecided (one factor is that Ann's forearms became sore and she was unable to do many manual things - certainly a deterrent to a homesteading lifestyle). The membership took on a new urgency in November, when Kathe & Michael announced that they will be leaving in October 2009 to move back to their homestead in SW Missouri. They are an integral part of Sandhill currently and will be sorely missed; in the meantime, we have another year together.

    parting thot: in these days of economic upheavel, think outside the circle - kiva.org


    Willow Catches a Fish

    i have a cool kid. Kids are an amazing crapshoot: you don't know what kind you will get and you don't necessarily have that much control over how they come out (parents love to think that they do, but the other factors often overwhelm their efforts). i got lucky.

    Willow has some wonderful primaries (people who regularly spend a couple hours a week with him, getting labor credits for this work in my community's elaborate work system). Yesterday, Trout took Willow to the pond with a fishing rod and some of our vegetarian sausage. They were going fishin'.

    Our pond is tiny. Since it is principally for swimming, it was designed with upstream filters and catchment pools so it would not have fish in it. But life only being secondarily concerned with the will of man (sic), other things happened.

    As Willow tells it, they put a small piece of soysage onto the hook, Trout did the casting, and Willow pulled it in slowly. The did this a dozen times with no effect. Willow convinced Trout to pull the hook and affix a larger piece of soysage to the hook, and within moments a fairly good sized fish, probably a trout (no relations), was snagged. Willow pulled it in with great joy and mild trepidation.

    When i arrived at dinner last night, they had already cooked and cleaned it and my son was in storytelling heaven. He ran to me in the dining hall and demanded that i gues what had happened. Several people had already told me and my lack of surprise did not slow him down for a moment. He was up in my arms, animated and in full tale. His joy was infectious.

    i ate a small piece of his first catch so i could be part of the history. Tasty.

    i was fearful becoming a parent. Though Hawina and i choose it very intentionally and added Sky as a co-parent after careful deliberation, i was unsure if it would work well in my manic life. In retrospect, it is perhaps the smartest thing i have ever done.

    i don't advocate parenting for Babylonians, but here on the commune, it has been an amazing experience. i am learning about intimacy by working with these small hands and listening to the gentle snoring of this cool kid. My kid, Willow.


    Acorn Update

    Well, 2008 has been a wild year for Acorn. We've seen some significant changes in our membership and our businesses.

    Seed businesses across the USA have been seeing phenomenal growth rates this last year and our own Southern Exposure Seed Exchange has been no stranger to the trend. Overall, sales have increased by something like 50% for the year with some of our historically slower months seeing their sales double or more over last year. It could be rising fuel and food prices, a maturing organics and green movement, all the promotion that we've been doing this last year, or just a good old fear of the apocalypse. Or some combination thereof. Speaking of promotion, this year, on the first Saturday in September, we held our second annual Heritage Harvest Festival with Monticello, Whole Foods, and the Master Gardeners. We fretted and worried when the tropical storm decided to roll through our area precisely on Saturday morning but were stunned when an estimated 1000+ people came out and braved the rain with us. This year also saw us purchasing Garden Medicinals and Culinaries, a seed company specializing in herbs, off the same fellow we purchased SESE off of some 10 years ago.

    On the membership front, we bid adieu to the Weaver family this August. They had been members here for three and a half years, after uprooting themselves from Madison, WI, to repopulate Acorn after the population crash of 2004. They had two children while here at Acorn and have moved on to central PA to start a new life. Just before they left, long time veteran of Twin Oaks, River, and returning Acorner, Marielle, joined us. They have brought a lot of experience and energy with them and are bringing change here every day. We have also recently added ex-Twin Oakers Thomas and Emily to our ranks. We did, however, lose new member Joan who found love and is following her long held dream of homesteading in a mud hut. She and her partner Courtney are looking into joining Red Earth Farms in the spring.

    Although generally a quiet place we've pulled off a couple fabulous parties this year. We celebrated our 15th anniversary this year on April 1st and had so many people over celebrating with us that we literally filled every square foot of our dining/common room with dining friends and communards. Not so long ago, Joan organized a surprise 60th birthday party for founding member Ira, and a bunch of old friends of hers showed up and reminisced and told stories for hours and hours.

    At any rate, it's an exciting time to live at Acorn. Our membership is cohesive and growing. Our business is booming. The infrastructure is rising out of the sea of entropy. Space is getting competitive. Some of our friends have taken all this data and begun to refer to an Acorn Renaissance. Whatever it is, it works for us.


    How to Visit an Intentional Community

    by Kat Kinkade

    Kat Kinkade of Twin Oaks gives a communitarian's perspective on visitors. She discusses visiting etiquette, gives practical advice on how to get the most out of one's visit, and offers valuable insights about how prospective members may be viewed by existing community members.

    The mechanics of visiting a community aren't very difficult. One writes a letter, waits for a response, follows directions, and that's that. But assuring oneself of a fruitful and satisfying visit is another matter. Most communities spend considerable time and energy talking about and worrying about optimizing visitors' experiences. Yet there are still shortcomings and miscommunication from time to time. Visitors can help by doing some thinking ahead of time to set themselves up for a good visit. This article is full of advice to the prospective visitor. Read it with your own plans in mind. Maybe it will give you some ideas.

    It is useful to consider the question: Why is this particular community open to visitors at all? What do they want or need from them? I think it's safe to say that most communities that advertise in a directory are keeping an eye out for people who might join them. They may be openly seeking members, or they may be only selectively open, watching for someone with a high degree of compatibility.

    There are other reasons for having visitors, and they will vary from group to group. Some may simply need help with their work. Others may welcome stimulation from outsiders. A number of groups make their living from welcoming visitors at various conferences and seminars. Some organizations are interested in spreading their philosophy or religion. What you can be sure of, however, is that a group opens itself to receive strangers for its own reasons and its own needs. It isn't just exercising neighborly hospitality.

    On your side, you have your reasons for wanting to visit. So, it makes sense to seek visits with groups that not only have something to offer you, but also have something to gain from your stay.

    No matter what a visitor's personal agenda may be, helping the community with daily work is quite likely to make the visit worthwhile on both sides. Work is appreciated, and good work is appreciated a lot! This is true on the smallest commune or the biggest cooperative. Shared work opens doors to friendship and mutual confidence that no amount of conversation can open. Most people know this intuitively.

    Over the years my home communities have hosted thousands of visitors, a large percentage have pitched in willingly with our work -- everything from collating newsletters to bucking hay -- and they don't begrudge the time. They have helped us build what we have today, and I am personally grateful. It's one of the reasons we will probably continue to be open to thousands more. The visitor who feels touchy about being exploited during the few days or weeks of a visit just doesn't understand the trade-offs from the community point of view, and is unlikely to get much satisfaction from the visit.

    Sometimes a visitor is perfectly willing to work, and repeatedly volunteers, but the community members don't seem to take the time or make the effort to find an appropriate job. If this happens and you aren't the sort who can just intuitively find ways to help out, just make sure your offer is clear. Then, enjoy yourself doing something else. Some groups are not organized well enough to use visitor resources, and there's no point in bugging them about it.

    A mistake to be avoided is treating communities like a sort of Disney World, put there for the interest of the public. For the most part, intentional communities are not showcases, are not kept up to impress outsiders, and are not particularly interested in being looked at by casual tourists. Resident communitarians may put up with a certain amount of tourism for income, or for outreach; but residents live their personal lives in community, and generally they don't enjoy uninvolved spectators.

    Occasionally a visitor is not content with a guided tour, and causes exasperation by insisting on "talking to the residents to get a real feel for the place." The resident members in any community are generally friendly enough, but they may see too many strangers. The only way to get a feel for the place is to stay awhile; and the best way to do that is to invest yourself in a visit that is useful to both yourself and the host community.

    Let us assume, then, that you are prepared to establish your welcome in a community by one means or another, and get on to other issues. One of the other main issues is expectations.

    It's a good idea to read the printed material that a community provides. While no substitute for a visit, it at least gives you an idea of the self image of the community. Of course this material will contribute to your expectations, as it should.

    This can be upsetting when your actual on-site experiences don't seem to have much to do with the lofty sentiments expressed on paper. Just the same, there are connections between stated group beliefs and their behavior norms. It is a mistake to ignore these connections, especially if you think of joining.

    Years ago I knew a couple who read the philosophical material of a certain community and were appalled by it. They didn't agree with the published community tenets and didn't like the tone of the material either. However, they happened to meet someone from the group who was highly personable. So, they visited and found the entire group to be friendly, charming, and warm. My friends figured actions speak louder than words. They decided to ignore the declared goals of the community, believing instead the day-to-day behavior of the people they were getting to know and enjoy. They joined up. But as the months of their membership progressed, my friends found themselves more and more at odds with the founding members of the community. Everybody was warm and courteous, but their goals weren't compatible. Serious internal dissension grew, which saw my friends in conflict with the original leaders over issues of community direction. Eventually the new couple left, and so did some othe r members, who were disillusioned by the bad feelings generated by the philosophical struggle.

    This left the group weak, angry, and exhausted. It was a community tragedy, and not an uncommon one. I say, before joining an intentional community, read and believe the community documents. The chances are good that the published goals and values of every community are deeply respected by many community members, even though the behavior of some members may give consistent impressions to the contrary. Of course a visitor will have expectations of some sort, but it's useful to keep them to a modest level. I can think of several common expectations that frequently meet with disappointment.

    There's the wealthy commune vision. At Twin Oaks we sometimes hear, "But I expected a rural group to have horses." Some people don't understand why the community isn't bursting with artistic work, or doesn't have its own school, or isn't generating its own power, or creating more original architecture. Such visitors haven't considered the wealth that must be allocated to realize such visions. Alternatively, visitors who look more closely can always find visions beyond financial survival that are attracting the energy of community members.

    For instance, at my community we maintain a wide assortment of musical instruments and drums, and provide work credits for dramatic productions and a wide range of apprentice training. We have indexed an extensive library of books and tapes. The community maintains an intimate retreat cottage, mud pit, sweat lodge, swimming hole, gardens, pastures, and woodlands. We provide attractive transportation opportunities for political and cultural events, and a wide variety of conferences. The visions realized will vary in each community, according to the interests and skills of the members as they come and go.

    Another more common expectation is the vision of a sense of community. Those with this vision expect to be included and loved fairly soon after arrival, because of an idea that all the people in a true community love one another. It is a serious disappointment when they realize that this kind of love grows only after time and mutual commitment, and cannot be grasped quickly.

    Many people expect all communities to be wholehearted in their dedication to food self-sufficiency or healthful eating habits. I have seen some visitors to my community seriously shocked by our casual laissez-faire attitude toward diet. Some of us eat meat and frequently serve desserts, as well as indulge in a small amount of junk food. To many of us this seems moderate and reasonable, considering our abundance of whole grains, soy foods, and vegetables. To some visitors it seems like heresy and backsliding.

    A viable community adapts to the needs and desires of its own members much more than it conforms to abstract ideals. The probability is high that it will not, if successful, be very fanatical in its ideals. There will be some determined core idealism, but otherwise compromises will prevail. Doubtless some communities don't compromise. Some don't last either. I suspect a connection.

    Many visitors set themselves up for disappointment by expecting their visit to be blessed with a love affair or relationship. Now, who am I to say this won't happen? In fact, it has happened to hundreds of people in hundreds of communities, and maybe you will be blessed also. But don't count on it. If you join, that's another matter. The chances of a long-term community member finding, at one time or another, a loving relationship within or through the community are quite high if not absolutely guaranteed.

    But the visitor? My advice is to set that hope firmly aside and seek enjoyment elsewhere. Trying too hard will just make it even less likely. As to the notion of finding readily available casual sex in the commune, forget it.

    The most interesting community visitor is a person who wants to join the community. Let's say you have read the community visitor materials, and you're ready for a change in your life. You've come with modest expectations, and the community looks pretty good to you. Even at this point, there are still considerations that may enhance the chances of a good connection to your chosen group.

    Take this question: Shall I be on my best behavior while I visit, or shall I let them know what I am really like? By all means put your best foot forward! The experienced community makes allowances. We know that in a year or two you're not going to be jumping up and volunteering to wash the dishes, the way you did when you were visiting. But the eagerness to make a good impression makes a good impression. We'll like you wanting to please. It says something good about your social skills. We know that the real you is somewhat more of a mixed bag. So is the real us for that matter. That's not the same thing as hiding vital information. If you have a serious medical problem or a sticky child custody situation or a history of drug abuse, you cannot expect a community to become involved in such major personal problems without prior knowledge and agreement.

    Then there's the question: Shall I let them know my real opinions, or shall I just go along with their assumptions? The answer depends on the nature of the group. Are you joining a group with a religion that all members must accept? If so, it seems questionable ethically to join such a group without embracing that religion. On the other hand, a group that is essentially secular should not concern itself with your private opinions. It is your behavior that matters.

    Nothing is more obnoxious than the visitor who defies the important traditions of a community. Imagine, for example, a visitor passing out candy bars to children in a commune that accepts only healthy foods, using the argument that children should be free to choose their own diets. Joining any community entails giving up certain personal freedoms, even as you gain new ones (different ones in different communities). It is unmannerly in the extreme, to say nothing of ineffective, to insist on taking for yourself freedoms that the community members have voluntarily given up. A certain amount of "When in Rome do as the Romans do," is certainly appropriate.

    On the other hand, if you are thinking of joining, and your happiness depends on something that you don't think the community has, don't give up too easily. Make it a point to ask, without being judgmental. It might be that the community is more flexible than it looks. There are many things that can be done, within my own community agreements, that aren't done very often for various reasons. If a prospective member who looks good to us wonders aloud if certain personal hobbies or practices would be supported at my community, we are happy to discuss possibilities. Certainly it's worth bringing up the subject and checking it out.

    The community you see during any one visit is not the whole community. It is almost impossible for visitors to understand this, but it is profoundly true. A little slice of time cannot give a deep understanding of the nature of an intentional community. Your visit is influenced by many factors that are trivial in relation to the entire membership experience. The seasons have a great impact on community activity, as does filling a big order for community products, participating in an emergency, or being there during a birth or a death. An influential member may be absent when you visit. Or, there may be other visitors at the same time who by their presence skew your impressions.

    The particular issue being discussed avidly when you visit is probably only one of many. Your visit will not give you an accurate impression of either the long-term importance of the issue or the outcome. If you visit when somebody is angrily leaving the group, you will pick up on a different feeling from the one you'd get if you visit when things are going well and membership is solid.

    Your impressions of the community will also be influenced by the group you hang out with. I strongly advise all visitors to be cautious of information from a member who is angry with the community and wants to air grievances. Negatively loaded information can give a sense of getting the lowdown on the community, but the value of such insights is questionable.

    At a minimum, a visitor who hears about significant community grievances should make a point of bringing up the same issues with a member who is happy with the place. A disillusioned member on the way out is certainly not an objective informant. No place is perfect, but it's probably not as bad as it can be made to sound.

    Regarding community controversy, there's not much point in a visitor getting involved. At Twin Oaks, public discussions are carried on in writing, on a bulletin board. The comments of visitors on controversies are not usually welcome. Other communities argue in meetings, and the same thing is true of visitor comments there. It may seem to the visitor that there is something quite relevant that hasn't been said, and somebody needs to say it. But this is virtually never true. No outsider can really understand these issues after a brief stay.

    Even after joining, new members will still blunder. Only after time spent living with longer-term members can new people gain an effective understanding of controversial community issues. All this doesn't mean "Visitors should be seen and not heard," but there is value in listening a lot and reserving your opinions for later.

    It can be valuable for the visitor to listen to the controversial discussion and then later ask questions of individuals, outside of meeting time. Be aware of framing your questions in a neutral form, "Why is it so important that quot; or "What would happen if this approach were taken?" This personal approach will give you a chance to participate without being resented, and to learn more about community issues at the personal level. Be prepared to hear answers to your questions, and don't be hurt if your input isn't taken very seriously.

    Every once in a while a visitor really does have knowledge that is immediately useful, and help offered in such cases is appreciated. Generally, this is technical help. For example, the community is having legal difficulties with a child custody case, and you are a retired lawyer from a firm that did a lot of custody work. Or the community is building a house, and you are an experienced builder. Or as a doctor, you notice that certain community norms are likely to lead to a particular disease. Note that the useful knowledge is not philosophical, but practical, the direct result of specialized training and experience.

    In between solid technical expertise and personal opinion lie many visitor skill areas that may or may not be useful to share with a host community. The one I notice most often is massage. A lot of people are trained masseurs these days. Good. Offering to give massages is a courteous and friendly thing to do. You may or may not get any takers. The same is true for various schools of conflict resolution, facilitation, and therapy, and for artistic accomplishments that you can teach. If you have such a skill, your best tactic is to offer but not push it. If your guitar playing draws a happy crowd, good; you've added something to the group's happiness. On the other hand, if nobody wants to listen, oh well, try something else.

    Any community's favorite visitor is the cheerful, helpful one who is genuinely impressed with the community and not very critical of shortcomings. Even if they don't join, leaving the community with a positive feeling is a nice thing to do. Of course it's always possible that some group at a particular time doesn't really need congratulations; it needs a kick in the pants. Even so, be very careful before you elect yourself to the job. A word about doing the community circuit. People often set out to visit many different communities, but few ever finish their trek. They find out what they need to know after being at two or three places. This being the case, it makes sense to look at the list of groups that sound interesting, and visit the most likely looking communities first. Directories get outdated, so write letters to more communities than you plan to visit. Some of your letters may not be answered.

    When my fellow communitarians learned I was writing this article about how to visit a community, they asked me to pass along several messages. "Tell them this is our home." "Tell them not to drop in without being invited." "Tell them they sometimes have to take no for an answer." While I'm at it, I should explain that 19 out of every 20 visitors are a help and a pleasure to us. The growls and groans all come because of the exceptional twentieth.

    Virtually all of those who publish the names and whereabouts of their groups do want and need a certain number and kind of visitors. So don't be discouraged. If you really want to live in an intentional community, you'll find one.

    About the Author

    Kat Kinkade is a founding member of Twin Oaks (1967), East Wind (1974), and Acorn (1993). She has written, and Twin Oaks has published, two books about that community, A Walden Two Experiment and Is It Utopia Yet? At Twin Oaks Kat passed away in 2008 at her home, Twin Oaks Community.


    East Wind Update

    Last winter was a joy, and we were fortunate all winter to have fresh greens coming out of our garden. The weather was conducive to outside activities, which kept the farm a little less penned up.

    See No Evil

    Spring came on like gangbusters. When the rains hit we had flooding in our lower fields, actually maxing out the flood plain; complicating our use of those fields for hay, and completely flooding our fine swimming hole. Sarah and Zeke, the new ranch team, managed to fix the bailer. I think they're like sewing machines: magical--not mechanical. We were still able to harvest hay out of a damp field, and as for the swimming hole, we moved it to a more accessible location.

    Yohanan's birthday party (his 157th, I believe) was held up the creek, via canoe, at some nice chert banks. May Day brought us some friends LEXing from Twin Oaks for our 34th anniversary! Our holiday festivals have been wonderfully light hearted, with hula hooping and frisbee. We've a group of people who have been playing with the fire circus idea with a fire hula hoop, juggling pins, fire rope batons, and of course, poi. This all added to the fun and exciting environment that makes these events so special. As long as I am talking festivals, I should add in that this August music festival was a wonderful time, with members of The Shwag (a local Grateful Dead tribute band) coming down and giving us a fine reason to dance the perfect night away.

    We have moved the deck from behind the sandals trailer, where it was not being used very often, to the south side of the music room. A beautiful new flight of stairs wraps all the way around, making this a very comfortable and usable space with a great view of the fields.

    Our kitchen has been working harder and harder to get more of our food from within a 100 mile radius, providing us with fresh milk, which is being used for some learning experiences with soft cheeses. And, fresh eggs to supplement our chicken's production, as well as some free range meat chickens from a Mennonite farm about 40 miles from us. There's even been gossip of building a dairy barn again and going back into production!

    Our personal food production has been wonderful this year with the ranch team harvesting and processing our own animals instead of sending them out for butcher. We've also had an amazing year in the garden, featuring peppers, cabbage, lettuce, kale, ginger, an amazing (and historically huge!) strawberry harvest, and tomatoes, coming in right up until the frost. This is only a small taste of the good work Faery Link and Peter have put into our garden. Many help, but the brunt always comes down to a few dedicated gardeners and they have done a fabulous job feeding us fresh food this year. We also have had more folks doing food processing, with beans, tomatoes, jalapenos, pickles and salsas all being put away this year.

    We have had a rising interest in sustainability, which has produced some nice morning gatherings where members and visitors talk about what sustainability means to us and what we can do.

    Our businesses have been doing well, and we communards saw profit sharing this year! We also put away cash for a building fund in a separate account and voted to increase that fund this year.

    Nuthouse Expansion

    The Nut House expansion saw a slow point in construction, but has recently picked up again. Hopefully, we will get walls on it before the snow flies! (Update: walls are on!) One of the reasons for the new jar line is the addition of a tamper evident seal. There are roaster trainings going on and a new team taking on Nut Butter production. Feels like a lot of energy going into our business again!


    Twin Oaks Update

    As I write this, a child is being born here at Twin Oaks. In the upstairs living room of Kaweah, Summer and Purl are being assisted by friends, family and a midwife in giving birth to our newest member.

    In June of this year we celebrated Twin Oaks' 41st Anniversary. Around 200 members and ex-members gathered together to watch slide-shows, have dinner and dance together to mark the occasion. Unfortunately, while we were waiting for dinner word got to us that one of the buildings next to our warehouse, named Oz, was burning. The destruction was total, but luckily the fire did not spread to any of the other buildings. The folks at Louisa Fire Department contained the fire and put it out for us. Work is already underway to replace Oz with a new steel building by this spring.

    This year's Halloween party was a blast. Many members dressed up and partied down. Costumes included: Sarah Palin's pregnant teenage daughter (costume worn by a 40-year-old man), Peak Oil (person adorned with garbage bags and car-oil cans, with a trickle of fake oil dripping out of co's head) and Johnny Cash (complete with 3-piece live band, he led the whole room in singing a round of "Ring of Fire")

    As of this moment, Twin Oaks is at maximum capacity. In early November we took on our 93rd adult member, which according to our current policy is our Population Capacity (or Pop Cap for short). Already since then we have collected a waiting list of a dozen people ready to move here once the opportunity arises. Is this the beginning of a new trend or just an anomaly? Only time will tell.

    Many of our newer members have expressed a strong interest in moving our community into a more ecologically sustainable direction. We have converted most of our light bulbs to compact fluorescent and are working on plans to add a composting toilet. We are also doing renovation on the solar hot water heater in Harmony. We have done some calculations and learned that in our domestic areas we consume 70% less gasoline, 80% less electricity and 76% less natural gas the the average Virginia resident. We also produce 87% less solid waste then the average American. We are also exploring the idea of hosting a natural building workshop with a focus on communal structures in the fall of 2009. Email bucket@twinoaks.org if you are interested in hearing more about our community focused natural building workshop.

    We hosted the 2008 Communities Conference and Women's Gathering this year, both of which were marvelous successes. Members here also attended the Climate Convergence, hosted at a nearby convention center.

    And finally, one of Twin Oaks' primary founding members, Kat Kinkade, died on July 3rd, peacefully at home at Twin Oaks. Kat was a visionary and a mover-shaker, and her life's work touched thousands of people. Her family and friends were here with her when she passed. Kat Kinkade was a founding member of three communities in the Federation of Egalitarian Communities: Twin Oaks, East Wind and Acorn. Each of these communities are still thriving to this day. Kat died due to complications related to bone cancer, an illness she has been living with for quite a while. Kat was buried in Twin Oaks Community's cemetery, with friends, family, and communards in attendance.


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