Password Algorithm – under learned mistakes.
i used to choose passwords egotistically. Based on campaigns i want us to be able to win. And as i logged in briefly each day i would flash on that generally daunting path i might go on.
In the last half year i have been choosing to base passwords on mistakes which i dont think i have learned enough from. i had an intimate describe a sexual assault to me and it was not as bad as i imagined it might have been, but my explanation of relief delegitimized the experience for the survivor. Exactly the opposite of what i want to be telegraphicing. I still have this password on several accounts.
When i bumble things in my poly relationships these mistakes are often promoted to passwords. This gives me repeated opportunities to remember what i did wrong and ponder how i might fix it. It is also an ego check for a personality which has leanings towards arrogance.